hai assalamulaikum,
almost few months being a passive person, learn how to be an independent student, prepared myself to become a good person, i am 21 years old now, so i have to think what i'm gonna be in 5 years in the future.
today i would like to share something to anyone bout relationship, yeah people nowdays, budak 12 tahun pon dah pandai nak bercinta, hehehe.
like we all knows, ramai remaja sekarang bercinta bertukar2 pasangan, kadang2 ada yang bangga sebab ex dy deret manjang.... so should i jeles? sbb my ex not more or equal than three, pandai2 la nak pahamkan ye. belajar math kan. hehehe.
5 must common "new-relationship" mistakes.
1. making hormonal choices
- bila someone "madly in love", dyorg akan buat decisions based on their feelings at the time, not on the suitability of a potential long-term mate. benda ni selalu jadi kat remaja zaman sekarang, dy main sebat je apa yang ada, bukan nak fikir nak buat jadi wife ke husband ke kan. if u feel u are about to commit urself to a person bcoz that person "has something magnetic about him o her.. feeling that u just cant describe, actually its ur hormones talking to u, not ur brain. adek2 yg parah tu, akak pon parah gak bercinta, kita sama je but please choose ur partner on the suitability of a potential long-term mate. :)
2. denial of problems
- haaa benda ni selalu jadi..bak kata orang, kalau dah suka kentut pon bau wangi. pfffttt. u will deny urself that the person has probs that u olss dah tau, or refuse to listen to others about flaws ur lover may have. contohnya kan macam ni, korang couple ngan someone ni, but at the same time someone told u that she/he has someone else. but then u refuse to accept it. xpercaya la kan, dah sayang, semua benda indah. u may focus on the lover only as u want him/her to appear.
3. choosing needy people
- yup, 1 of the mistakes, biggg mistakes. u attract people who plead that they need u n u spend ur time being there for them n constantly trying to fix their neuroses. benda ni selalu jadi kat lelaki (sorry), contohnya yang bercinta jarak jauh ni, as me know, men need woman n woman need love. dyorg kalau jauh sikit mula la kan. n a woman need love, sapa yang xkan jatuh hati dekat lelaki yg selalu ada dengan dy kan. please find someone who wants to be with u, not needs to be with u...
4. being compliant
- benda ni selalu jadi kat orang2 yang baru bercinta, cuba korang bercinta bertahun2 nak tengok apa jadi, hahahaha. every new relationship spend their time desperately avoiding any disagreement with their new love, trying to make him/her happy n avoiding doing o saying anything that might upset him/her. for me la kan, nak gaduh tu xsalah tp kne la ada yang mengalah kan? give n take, respect. apa2 pon respect, kalau u olss wish u want ur partner be ur wife o husband please respect. insyaAllah.
5. picking a partner who u think u can change
-" i know he's had a bad history with relationship, but when he's with me, he'll be different, he'll change"... pfffttt jangan kau percaya dengan semua ini dusta belaka. dia takkan berubah. someone yang percaya dyorg boleh mengubah seseorang atau menjadi sesuatu yang lain always asking for a tough life. many women believe that the magical power of love will create a new man before their very eyes, but what normally happens is the new lover simply reestablishes his past bad habits in the new relationship. contohnya, yang lelaki ni hisap rokok, tapi perempuan ni xsuka lelaki hisap rokok, so konon2 lelaki ni pon berhenti la.... jangan percaya korang ingat senang nak benti rokok ni? nonsense. normally doesn't happen until much later in the relationship bcoz in the early stages of romantic love, most people show their best side n hide their bad habits. agak2 pakwa korang xlayan korang sangat, dah suka marah2, suke pegi tandas pegang fon, kantoi mesej pelik2, be ready, tanda2 korang akan dapat madu adalah sangat tinggi. hahaha. please make a good choice. :D
omg, i cant belive i wrote all of this nonsense fact. hahaha. just for fun, got a test tomorrow. wish me luck n get well soon abang. jangan lupa makan ubat <3
i love u abang <3
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